Before Stonewall: John's Interview Clip 3 of 3
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John reflects on his settled life with Danny in their Salford home, in this concluding extract, as well as commenting on Manchester's 'Gay Village'.
In this extract John, living discusses with his partner in a Salford tower block, reflecting on how the couple have been accepted for what they are by the local community. Saying 'we're not mincing queens. We're just John and Danny', he doesn't recall any prejudice being shown against them, except a slight degree of wariness when they moved in three years before. This, John puts down to the fact that they both had cropped hair and tattoos, but their neighbours soon saw that the couple were pretty intelligent. After this, the wariness stopped, and John and Danny were no longer seen as a pair of rough men who lived together.
Asked how he feels about Manchester's 'Gay Village', John relates that the older he gets the less often he 'goes on the scene'. Drink was an issue for John, as being an alcoholic, he didn't like getting drunk in public. This meant he didn't really enjoy going out to the 'Gay Village', feeling also that straight people now outnumber the gays, and it is not the 'comfortable' place it once was. John concludes by saying that gays should have places dedicated to themselves, considering that straight people are already spoilt for choice in their choice of venues.
John was born in 1942 in the Lancashire town of Rawtenstall. An only child, he went to a local grammar school and studied chemistry at Manchester University before dropping out after two years.
He also developed an interest in music and played in a university jazz-band as well as joining a folk band called Valley Folk. After the band broke up, John moved to Oxfordshire and took an Open University degree in maths. Becoming a lecturer, he taught at a college in Oxford, where he met his first wife, Beryl, who was a school headteacher.
John's first marriage lasted 14 years until Beryl died, after which he moved to Manchester, re-married and later divorced. During his second marriage, to Maureen, he battled with alcohol problems. He also came to terms with being gay and began a number of relationships, some of them disastrous.
His current relationship is with Danny and together they live in Salford. John got involved with several protest groups like CND (the Campaign for Nuclear Disarmament), as well as feeling drawn to gay campaigning organisations like CHE (the Campaign for Homosexual Equality) and OUTRAGE. John still attends folk concerts and festivals, occasionally singing on stage.