Before Stonewall: Millie's Interview Clip 5 of 6
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After years hiding in the deepest recesses of the closet, Millie bursts out into her true self - with Pride.
In this short extract, Millie describes her gradual evolution into the person she is today. She comments on how ignorant she and many other girls were about sexual matters in the 1950s, before going on to describe how the coming decades would change everything.
Reflecting that she wishes she'd known then what she knows now, Millie observes that life was very constrained and restricted before the 1960s, but the explosion of creativity and freedoms that emerged during that decade, gave people the courage to be different as well as the 'ammunition' and confidence 'to fight to be ourselves'.
She was a very keen participant in the early Pride marches in London, though recalls that her partner at the time wouldn't accompany her. Despite this, Millie went along with friends saying the marches were 'fantastic' - despite the occasional homophobic abuse from some passers-by.
Born in North Wales in 1939, Millie lived alone with her mother and sister after her father left the family when she was still very young. Her mother remarried but Millie did not get on with her stepfather.
A while after leaving school, she trained to be a nurse, eventually being hired as a ship's nurse by the Union Castle Line, which travelled between Southampton and Cape Town.
Millie would later adopt a straight lifestyle when she migrated to Canada but returned to the UK in 1969. Millie rose with the nursing ranks eventually becoming a director of nursing in London during the 1980s. Moving into the private sector she ran several operating theatres at an exclusive hospital in London.
In 1975 Millie enjoyed her first proper relationship before having a shorter affair with another hospital matron. In the late 1990s she met her current partner and both received a blessing from a local priest at Christmas-time in front of all their family members.