Before Stonewall: Sue's Interview Clip 2 of 3
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Sue gets a teaching job at Holloway Prison and finds a huge lesbian presence. But once in a relationship with an ex-con, things go awry.
Sue describes the changes she made to her life during the 1970s in this extract from her interview. After leaving the Tufnell Park discussion group to look after her children, Sue got a job teaching at Holloway Prison. There she came across a massive lesbian population, saying the jail was 'chocker block with dykes'. One of the 'butch' inmates, on day-release, persuaded Sue to take her to a South London lesbian club, followed by another trip to Camden's famous Black Cap pub.
Fibbing to her husband that she was attending a conference, Sue spent a weekend staying with the newly released ex-inmate. She remembers that the sex was 'fantastic' and recalls how great it was to make love to someone and have it reciprocated, instead of just having sex. From that point, Sue felt she could no longer deceive her husband or the children and in 1976, agreed to spend a number of days in the week with her family and the rest of the week with her lover.
This divided life led to many snipes and jealousies from other lesbians, but Sue remained emphatic about her 'family time'. Unfortunately, Sue's lover turned out to be a pathological liar and a thief and she felt it was her duty to tell the ex-prisoner's subsequent lovers about her behaviour. Sue then recalls being stalked by her enraged ex-lover on a motorcycle, while she was driving with the children in the family's Morris Minor.
About this time, Sue also recalls a major split between the lesbians and the straight women in the discussion group, and how by 1981, she would eventually move into her own place.
Born in Illinois, USA, to a Quaker family in 1941, Sue moved to London in the early 1960s after attending college in New York City. She married and had two children and worked as a dancer. She was also involved in various political groups and joined a women's 'consciousness-raising' group in 1969.
Her involvement in feminism caused her to question her marriage and her sexual identity and she began to have relationships with women. Sue worked as a teacher at Holloway Prison and would later join the Spare Rib collective.
Sue had published many books including a collection of autobiographical writings including 'I used to be nice: Reflections on Feminist and Lesbian Politics'.