Before Stonewall: Sue's Interview Clip 3 of 3
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Feminist, lesbian activist Sue finds she has become an 'un-person' at a conference of 'anti-sex' ideologues.
In this extract, Sue recalls the turbulent shifts in lesbian and feminist ideas in the pre - and post - Stonewall era. In the early years, Sue didn't recall any 'anti - sex' or prescriptive ideas being mentioned and the prevailing attitude, at the time, was that sex was liberating, jolly and joyous. Lesbians and women were being actively encouraged to use dildos and even cucumbers for their pleasure.
However, by the mid - 1980s, Sue observes that revisionism had set in. The butch/femme duality and role - play of earlier years was now seen as bad - a sexist parody of heterosexual behaviour. Now the accent was on adopting a 'vanilla sexuality' only. Sue felt that these 'sex wars' pushed people into adopting positions that put them in opposition to others who held different views, and prone to attack attacked by those holding 'revolutionist sex positions'. These 'anti-sex' attitudes, according to Sue, made people feel terrible, and resulted in vicious fights and rancorous splits within lesbian and feminist groups.
Sue recalls how this climate affected her personally. When she, was an anti - censorship campaigner, she was accused of being a 'pornographer and anti-feminist', by a conference chair in front of all the assembled delegates. Sue has always seen the dividing line between pornography and lesbian erotica as being 'in the eye of the beholder' and criticises the linkage between pornography and anti-feminism, and she maintains that she can forcibly argue her case.
Born in Illinois, USA, to a Quaker family in 1941, Sue moved to London in the early 1960s after attending college in New York City. She married and had two children and worked as a dancer. She was also involved in various political groups and joined a women's 'consciousness-raising' group in 1969.
Her involvement in feminism caused her to question her marriage and her sexual identity and she began to have relationships with women. Sue worked as a teacher at Holloway Prison and would later join the Spare Rib collective.
Sue had published many books including a collection of autobiographical writings including 'I used to be nice: Reflections on Feminist and Lesbian Politics'.