Before Stonewall: Jane H's Interview Clip 5 of 5
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Surrounded by a glut of young hopefuls in her work as theatre administrator, Jane finds rest and relaxation dancing with more mature ballroom-buddies.
In this extract Jane gives her thoughts on ageing. Having worked as a theatre administrator, Jane observes that resources are primarily aimed at the large number of young people in the company. Older participants, on the other hand, are rare, having been crowded out to some extent by young people 'trying to make it'. This situation makes her 'feel old' though she lets those younger members 'have a space' - adding that she even feels 'motherly' towards them. However, Jane now belongs to a ballroom dancing group where older people are more likely to socialise.
Jane observes that she likes being a lesbian and regards it as a 'movable feast' - and that she could have a relationship with a man once again if she chose to do so, but also feels that she would lose a lot by returning to the 'straight life'.
Her interview concludes with a mention of a book she co-edited called 'Girl to Girl', and is struck by how much energy families devote to preventing their children from being gay. Jane never had any such parental pressure put on her during her upbringing so the eventual process of becoming a lesbian was achieved without trauma. One source of amazement for Jane, however, is the silence that remains about the subject of women's sexuality.
Jane was born in the late 1940s to a family living in Hay-on-Wye in the Welsh borders. Both parents were socialists and encouraged their children to have a tolerant outlook. A happy child, Jane's mother ran a local hotel and Jane got to know many gay people who worked there. Her mother also befriended the transexual celebrity, April Ashley, and Jane recalls meeting her and her many dogs. April Ashley died in 2021.
Jane went to college, becoming an academic administrator and lived a 'straight' life until her thirties when she decided to come out as a lesbian. She was active in the 'Slip of the Tongue' theatre group as well as forum theatre in London. She also co-edited a book entitled 'Girl to Girl'.