Before Stonewall: Sapphire's Interview Clip 3 of 4
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Sapphire tells us how he deals with homophobia, especially when it comes from Bristol's West Indian community.
In this extract, Sapphire observes that other gay men find his flamboyant, highly visible and outrageous personality off-putting, and consequently they aren't interested in him. However, men who are conflicted or confused by their sexuality find him more attractive because, Sapphire believes, he projects a feminine persona. This explains, perhaps, why Sapphire prefers mixed clubs in and around Bristol, rather than those geared to single sex customers.
He also dislikes the isolating effect that labelling can have and insists that one should be free to express oneself in the way one chooses.
Sapphire reflects that his confidence in himself, enabled him to pick up plenty of men at those mixed clubs, on occasion turning a possibly violent situation into something entirely different.
Sapphire isn't aware of a strong black and gay identity, citing that many members of Bristol's black community are very hostile and virulently homophobic. Saying that West Indian culture doesn't tolerate gays, Sapphire adds that the English also shared a similar view, but were less extreme. Commenting that there is a growing toleration whenever he visits the St Paul's area of the city, Sapphire claims that his honest and up-front public persona is helping to encourage that change.
Sapphire believes he now gets more respect from Bristol's black community saying 'if I'm tolerant of you, then you have to tolerate me - that's how it works'
'Sapphire' was born in Kingston, Jamaica in 1953. He was raised by a white, middle-class woman whom he refers to as his grandmother. His real parents had already migrated to the UK.
Educated by nuns, who gave him free rein to dress and behave as he liked - which usually involved wearing his grandmother's clothes.
When he was 16, he joined his family in Bristol, who were living at that time, on a rough council estate. Still dressing in a flamboyant and outrageous way, Sapphire was beaten up on many occasions but was able to overcome the hostility of people and become accepted by them.
Aged 18, Sapphire moved to London to work as a 'rent-boy' and once attended a Pride march. The militant tone of the event appalled Sapphire who preferred a happier, joyful expression of his gayness.
Moving back to Bristol, Sapphire had various jobs, one of which was in a chocolate factory. He also became involved with his local church and has become a significant and much-loved member of the congregation.